Neocities

oopsiedoodle updated Oopsie Doodle

3 weeks ago

posts/2026/big-leaf.html

29 likes

zerock 3 weeks ago

thank you that is a good leaf

3 likes

garfriend 3 weeks ago

Alleys are the best to explore. Finding free stuff, weird cars, crazy yards, and sometimes even a cat to pet :]

1 like

rusty-bytes 3 weeks ago

mmmmmmmm leaf

2 likes

childhood-country updated Childhood Country

3 weeks ago

Childhood Country

knitting.html

reading_log.html

2 likes

legaosaure-craft updated LeGaosaure's Craft

3 weeks ago

LeGaosaure's Craft

friendshipbracelet.html

friendshipbracelet/bracelet_134.html

1 like

veyther subtlymelancholy

3 weeks ago

cool website!!!

shnu-world oopsiedoodle

3 weeks ago

i have a ribbons request... "earth goth" (no expectations hehe)

1 like

oopsiedoodle 3 weeks ago

you got it

1 like

shnu-world 3 weeks ago

*w* <3

esoterictriangle updated pleasant greet

3 weeks ago

yotsuba/index.html

workflow/index.html

woes/index.html

wild_rice_soup/index.html

weekend_project/index.html

waterslides_rule/index.html

devhank oopsiedoodle

3 weeks ago

didn't expect you'd follow me so tysm, btw I love your ribbons page. How did you sew them? Any yt tutorials I can find? idk if you still take requests or not but what about making a new one with "funsize" word in letter beads?

4 likes

oopsiedoodle 3 weeks ago

Thanks very much :) I don't do anything crazy - cut strips of felt, fold 'em up accordion style, and run a piece of thread through it. Everything else is just glue. I do still take requests - will add your idea to my list!

2 likes

oopsiedoodle rusty-bytes

3 weeks ago

ooooopsie, i thought i already followed you. the pi-magotchi is so cool!

5 likes

rusty-bytes 3 weeks ago

thank you so much! and thank you for the follow!

1 like

oopsiedoodle ryancadman

3 weeks ago

Following with the hope of more coney dog reviews

5 likes

isomorphie 3 weeks ago

it is very important we get more coney dog reviews ryan

oopsiedoodle antgraveyard

3 weeks ago

the soup collection is so visually appealing. yum!

4 likes

antgraveyard 3 weeks ago

thank you!!! the beautiful range of soups...

3 likes

legaosaure-craft updated LeGaosaure's Craft

3 weeks ago

crochet/crochet_014.html

1 like

dicjournal updated Dreaming in Celadon | Notebook

3 weeks ago

posts/2026-03-08-It-was-a-good-weekend.html

credits.html

readers-digest/posts/2026-03-07-Readers-Digest-Vol-8.html

oopsiedoodle updated Oopsie Doodle

3 weeks ago

posts/2026/not-the-worst-thing.html

posts/index.html

Oopsie Doodle

30 likes

distillation 3 weeks ago

I'm sorry this is happening to you and it's not right! I think an important thing to remember when you're gauging other's reactions is that...your coworkers are not necessarily funding their 401k. I know a lot of mine aren't and it stresses me out. People older than us tend to think of it as "They (capital They, of course) are taking my money" and then others just never bothered to learn what it is or how to plan.

2 likes

garfriend 3 weeks ago

It's hard to be motivated in these times. I want to seek out jobs in my own field, but I know they'd be on the chopping block in the near future. The future is incredibly scary. I say we all live on a farm off-grid if it all goes to shit?

7 likes

skep 3 weeks ago

I'd be pissed too. That's not just a couple extra percent they're taking, that's really however much it would grow to over time. Anyway, my own mood at work has drastically improved since adopting a "put in the effort when it counts, otherwise dick off and write for my dumb website" strategy. I'd recommend it.

9 likes

divergentrays 3 weeks ago

I'd be upset, too, about having my company's 401K contributions stop. That's part of your compensation package! Also sorry to hear about your job burnout. :( Been there, it sucks.

2 likes

shnu-world 3 weeks ago

incredibly frustrating! wish i had some good advice but the truth is, there's no easy answer. i'm changing careers but i have no idea what the future will hold. i guess finding ways to just enjoy & cherish our lives and put work on the backburner as much as we can.

3 likes

tabf5 3 weeks ago

I know a big change is around the corner because this shit isnt sustainable for anyone but I just want something to give already. It's so tiring being a frog slowly boiled that has ran out of new pots to jump into to temporarily escape

7 likes

p7uen 3 weeks ago

I hope you can take some solace that you are not alone and as seen in the comments, there are a lot of people in this modern hellworld that know how you feel (possibly why a lot of us are taking refuge in this community!). As tabf5 says I hope something changes soon, it has to!

3 likes

oopsiedoodle 3 weeks ago

Thanks for the commiseration and encouragement, everyone! I’ve been so confused by my coworkers’ reactions, it’s good to hear that others agree that I’m justified in being pissed. I guess my strategy for now is to dial back my effort as I figure out what to do next

5 likes

ratlands 3 weeks ago

2,000 consecutive days of work?!??! I think my brain would explode. Definitely understandable for you to feel burnt out and upset. Work can be so dispiriting.

2 likes

oopsiedoodle 3 weeks ago

lol yep. They weren’t all 8 hour days or anything, but some form of work due every day. I am still recovering 🥴

1 like

stoneroad 3 weeks ago

2,000 sounded like a long time, and then I did the math and it was even longer then I thought. I also happen to be looking for a new career path at the moment.

2 likes

stoneroad 3 weeks ago

I got a degree in graphic design planning to work in marketing. Turns out I hate it. I now work with students with disabilites at a community college and love it. Being at a college, someone showed me this recently and it's been a good resource so far. https://www.onetonline.org/

2 likes

pocketnotebook 3 weeks ago

sorry you're going through this, definitely a gut punch. cliché as it sounds, but it's a wide world out there in terms of opportunities and it sounds like you're in a spot where you could move into a lot. give yourself the time and space to figure that out

2 likes

isomorphie 3 weeks ago

"it's not the worst thing happening in the world." Oh hell no. Im furious just reading that. literally gaslighting their workers into thinking that your retirement is "no big deal." how incredibly disrespectful. hope things get better for you soon man

3 likes

oopsiedoodle 3 weeks ago

right??? i cant tell you how rude these people have been for the past year. so upsetting. also thanks again everyone, i didn't expect this much response to my whiny little post.

2 likes

dicjournal 3 weeks ago

Your feelings here are 1000% valid based on the way corporations are trending on treating the labor force. The whole "not the worst thing" is such a gaslighty thing to say!

2 likes

dicjournal updated Dreaming in Celadon | Notebook

3 weeks ago

vignettes/posts/2026-03-06-Vignettes-36.html

1 like

childhood-country updated Childhood Country

3 weeks ago

reading_log.html

2 likes

swiftred updated swiftly!

4 weeks ago

swiftly!

6 likes

badgraph1csghost 4 weeks ago

there's no inherent chemical component to being trans. if you dont feel good on hrt (or you havent even got onto it) then don't do it. you're still trans if you want to be. that's the fun bit about gender, you're in complete control of what you want to be! also im jealous you're able to write so much lol

4 likes

swiftred 4 weeks ago

Hi, Tina! I knew you'd get it 💜 I'm just weary for silly reasons. And for what it's worth about the writing, thank you! I always have to be creating *something* or I don't feel well

1 like

pixelglade 4 weeks ago

To me the only "bad trans" people are those who go weirdly right wing and start supporting/funding terf campaigns and political ways that end up hurting the lgbtq community overall. I do relate a lot to the pressures of presenting male because it's easier for people to grasp / I like it / but also feeling very feminine inside. Yet I'm nearly 3 years on T and think it's right for me, it's a personal decision to stop.

2 likes

pixelglade 4 weeks ago

1/2 I know a non binary masc presenting person in a Discord group I'm in they're on T and have had all the traditionally trans masc experiences yet they say they're non binary because they feel like their brain is female and they feel mostly feminine inside. I'm trying to make sense of this myself, but I think one thing I know is what society wants a male to be and who I am is actually different. Plus...

1 like

pixelglade 4 weeks ago

I think society and people because they have internalised societal / cultural expectations, is actually much more genderfluid and non-binary than most people will want to admit. So part of the backlash to trans people is actually (in my opinion) internalised discomfort to breaking the gender binary. Anyway all this to say, you're not a bad trans person and if you think you're still trans then you are. :)

1 like

swiftred 3 weeks ago

@pixelglade I loved hearing your thoughts, thank you!! I'm not sure if it helps to say a part of me knows I'm not actually "bad". It's all greater than me and I agree about the internalized discomfort to breaking the gender binary.

oopsiedoodle neopetgameboy

4 weeks ago

I can't tell you how fast I raced to follow you when I saw the Furby Shop Wizard art

6 likes

neopetgameboy 4 weeks ago

thank you so much!!! i really enjoyed your furbish phrases for resistance pamphlet!!(also your website has such a nice atmosphere. like walking into an antique store. i love it.) thanks for the follow!!

3 likes

esoterictriangle updated pleasant greet

4 weeks ago